What kind of woman do you want to be?
Do you want to be a strong woman or a woman that wants to get a man?
Plagued is such a question for a woman of my age and also my generation. Chasing dreams and chasing men; their dream is chasing that man.
It's seemingly scary, moving forward. A strong woman admits when she is hurt and she faces her problems head on. She never takes her eye off the ball, especially for a man. Now tell me, what kind of woman do you want to be?
Do you want to be a strong woman? Or just the girl that gets the man?
Your career will never haunt you. You career will never taunt you. Yet in the same respect your career will never cuddle you, hold you, kiss you, or cradle you. You career will never leave you, unless you leave it. It's a double edged sword for focused ambitious woman. You want it all but can't have it all. "Something's gotta give." But what?
We are told to chase our happiness and hold on to it. To find it, to hold it, to capture it, to keep it, to cherish it, to share it; but there's a funny ironic thing about it. We're never told exactly what happiness is or how happiness is truly achieved. We're just told about it.
Happiness at its maximum to its maximum…
My happiness is held within myself. The greatest gift of joy that is given to me is created within myself. The warmth that fills my heart is the warmth that fills my soul. It is the joy of self achievement.
For now I'll hold my heart in my hand and hope that one day some lucky man may want to hold my hand too; for he'll know exactly whats held so preciously inside it.
I'm choosing to stand, with both my feet firmly on the ground, with the hopes and dreams of creating a beautiful life for myself and those around me. With internal focus, ambitious, and drive within me; my career will take me further for now. I'll focus on my career and me as a person.
Sometimes it's not always about finding the right man or finding the right career. ITS ABOUT BEING RIGHT FOR YOU… Be the right kind of person that you need to be to fulfill whatever reality and future it is that you want to create for yourself. Create with all your might the most majestic scenario. Predict your future by creating your future. Focus on being the right woman. Focus in being the right person. Focus in being the right sister, daughter, leader, and friend.
I've become a slow and avid believer that if you become what is right for you, you'll truly come to know you. And when you come to know yourself; we all become a little more confident in the decisions we daily make.
Focus on being the RIGHT WOMAN, and you'll know when you meet the RIGHT MAN.
Ending note:
I will be the RIGHT woman, with the RIGHT career, sharing my life with the RIGHT man, creating and expanding ourselves into the RIGHT family, enjoying the RIGHT life; that I PREDICTED I WOULD CREATE...
